The longest journey

Traveling at Christmas time is like no other travel, at least insofar as it involves traveling back to your origins — family origins, geographical origins, psychological origins.  It can also be the longest journey of any.  It adds a dimension to the phrase “going BACK” home.

For some it involves regression to childhood, or at least the potential for it.  There are few people I know who wouldn’t agree that the impulse to regress is strongest when around family, and especially during holiday season. 

But however dysfunctional one’s family is, ultimately it’s an opportunity to meet challenges head on, to continue the ongoing cycle of humility (and sometimes fun) that comes with feeling like a kid again, and understanding that nothing can be or ever will be perfect when it comes to family.

The message given at the Christmas Eve service we attended this year was about how imperfect we are and how important it is to realize that we cannot be perfect.

So visiting family around the holidays this year and every year has been about the realization that — despite how hard we try to get the wrapping perfect, or the gifts perfect, or the decorations perfect, or anything else perfect — it is enough to be good enough.

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The best way to see a country is from the footplate of a locomotive.

Aside from a longstanding desire to visit Transylvania, the driving force of my eastern European itinerary was an almost-as-longstanding desire to take a ride on a luxury train (generally), the Orient Express (specifically).  After researching many options, I had come across an even more suitable choice:  the Danube Express — ideal because it incorporated a visit to Transylvania in the course of crossing four countries.  Pretty much a no-brainer!

I was far from riding the footplate, and the Danube Express is so much more than a “locomotive.”  In the star quality system, it has to be somewhere near top of the line.  The Danube Express offers multiple journeys a year through various destinations.  I first discovered it in 2008.  I had originally planned to take this particular journey in 2009, but the journey (aptly titled “The Transylvanian”) was canceled that year, apparently to the down economy, so I put off the trip off for another year.  It was worth the wait.

Everything about this experience was an Experience with a capital E.  From the moment we, the Danube Express guests, arrived to Budapest’s Nyugati station, all the way through to disembarking in Istanbul’s Sirkeci station, it was a transporting experience in more ways than (the obvious) one.  As soon as I arrived (late) to Nyugati station (built by the Eiffel company), I was met by an attendant who took the luggage and led me to an elegant room in the terminal where Iwas given a champagne reception, along with all of the other guests.  Shortly thereafter, I boarded the train and was given a key to the sleeping compartment.  The anticipation of walking down the narrow hallway toward this compartment, not knowing what to expect, felt like something akin to a child’s first Christmas morning.

When I got to the compartment, it was like seeing the tree with presents under it.  It was miniature.  It had L-shaped sofas which would later become the bed.  It was outfitted with a sitting area, side tables built into the sofas, cabinetry, a luggage shelf, and a full bath with shower stall.  Windows that opened and closed securely and easily.  All this in less than about 50 square feet of space.  It was perfect.

And that was just the compartment!  The lounge car was equipped with a piano (and player), full bar service that was open 24 hours, and snacks.  The restaurant cars offered three fine meals a day.

Each day started with a continental breakfast before arriving to the first tour spot of the day.  After disembarking for a few hours to explore, I returned to the train for lunch and traveled to the next spot for more touring and exploration, eventually to return to the car for dinner and the night ride on to the border crossing into the next country.  Guests were asked to leave our passports with the attendants overnight with the caveat that we may be asked to rise during the night if the border crossing required it.  Hungary into Romania and Romania into Bulgaria did not.

Bulgaria into Turkey required visas, so — while no trouble ensued — it merits a separate entry in this blog.

Night 1 on the train, traveling into Romania, anticipating the next-day visits to long-awaited sites, I barely slept at the thought of making way, at long last, into the old haunts of the Draculesti.

Perhaps I caught a few winks, but for those few hours, the night remained rich with the lore of Romania’s famous historical hero and literature’s infamous anti-hero.

“Railway termini are our gates to the glorious and the unknown.  Through them we pass out into adventure and sunshine, to them, alas! we return.” (E.M. Forster)

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Losing time to jet lag

I know there are solutions to jet lag — sleeping pills for the plane ride, a glass of wine, herbal tea, and other sleep aids of choice — but nothing has ever worked better for me than good old-fashioned sleep.  Given the time to do so, I just need to get to my destination and find a bed.  Or, if sheer excitement from being in a new environment can keep me going for a while, then I could always pass out after the adrenaline wears down.

Bed

This is precisely what happened when I reached Budapest after a night flight with connection in Frankfurt.  Actually, I expected to catch a catnap in the Frankfurt airport, since the layover was considerable — over 2 hours.  But no such luck.

By the time I got to Budapest in the mid-morning, said adrenaline rush was in full swing, so napping lost its appeal for a while.  I spent the day acquiring as many experiential souvenirs as possible and, after a great meal at a nearby five-star restaurant and a postprandial cocktail in the hotel’s jazz lounge, I had planned out what to do the next day, since the stay in Budapest was so limited, given that boarding time for the luxury train was scheduled for 4:00 p.m. the following day.

You can probably see what’s coming.  I dutifully set the alarm on my normally-trusty iPhone and fell into a deep sleep, planning to wake the following morning by 8:00 a.m. to make the most of the last bit of time in this beautiful city.

The next thing I knew, I woke up to find that it was already 12:30 — a half-hour past check-out time!

Had I made a mistake on the iPhone alarm?  Did it go off and I just didn’t hear it?  I never bothered to check but rapidly proceeded to make the most of the last few hours in Budapest.

As for those last few hours:  See upcoming post.

 

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An atmosphere befitting Transylvania

The 9th of September 2010 is a day to remember, and its mood helps the remembering.  The day before, I had boarded a luxury train in Budapest and arrived in Romania the next morning.  By the time I arrived in Transylvania, the day offered up its most Vlad-III-worthy ambience.

As if manifested directly out of Bram Stoker’s novel (or a Hollywood movie set), the sky gradually misted over as the day wore on, with a light fog suspended high above us, thickening and crawling across the mountaintops of the Carpathians.

By the time the tour bus reached Bran Castle, there was a perfectly-timed chill in the air to accompany the sky’s filmy vapor.  The chatter of curious tourists and the guide’s facts disabusing any myths surrounding the Castle did little to quell the undercurrent of ghostly intrigue that continued to press in by the elements.

OK, so maybe I’ve seen a few too many horror movies, but it was pretty cool arriving to the very inspiration for, though not the actual, location of Count Dracula himself, imagined so famously by Bram Stoker.

A little help from nature and a day to remember.

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Istanbul cats

Nine years ago I was in Rome Italy, and I was struck by how many stray cats were wandering about the Colosseum. Yet the number of stray cats there barely rivals those in Istanbul!

From the time I arrived to Sirkeci Station in Istanbul and throughout my wanderings around the city, there were cats nearly everywhere, at every site, around every corner, outside windows, under restaurant dining tables — some friendlier than others — but hovering and watching. A few times I even came across entire litters of kittens romping around a grassy area.

At Süleymaniye Mosque, one feline endeared itself to a tourist. At the Spice Bazaar another comfortably cozied up on a pile of small carpet squares that were meant to be for sale. In cemeteries, rooftops, and gardens, they would lie around with enviable ease.

I’m not a cat lover, but I also don’t revile them. I’m always curious at their independence and grace. Here is a small selection from the multitude of cats wandering around Istanbul.

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Tonight I’m gonna bathe like it’s 1584

There are many Turkish baths in Istanbul (known locally as hamamı). Despite our best intentions to compare and contrast a variety of them, however, we accomplished a visit to only one Turkish bath — and that was Çemberlitaş Hamamı.

Çemberlitaş Hamamı was built by the architect Sinan in 1584. According to the Çemberlitaş Hamamı site, the structure contains only one original item, the “lantern” in the women’s section. I only just now learned that, though, so the whole time I was there, I imagined that I was experiencing precisely what women in the 16th century did. Of course, so many experiences in Istanbul make you feel as if you are being transported back in time, but none more than getting serviced at Çemberlitaş, and the attendants only add to the allure.

It may have been useful to read up on the protocol prior to visiting, but I went in completely cold, not knowing what to expect and having never been to a Turkish bath (or any other type for that matter). The men’s and women’s quarters are separated. It was late on a Sunday night, only a couple of hours before closing time (and the date coincided with the night of a big basketball semi-final game in which Turkey’s team was a contender against the U.S.), so it wasn’t too crowded.

I selected my service (a massage + reflexology treatment) and was given a couple of tokens and a locker key and was then directed into the women’s area. Even though there were only a few customers (perhaps five or six, including me, and maybe the same number of attendants performing various tasks, it was definitely not for the shy! All of the pictures on the site show customers wearing towels, but in actuality I didn’t see too many of those. Once I shed my towel on the hot stone table in the “hot area,” I didn’t put it back on again. After perspiring for a while on the hot stone table while my attendant, an older lady, bathed near one of the basins (kurna) nearby, the attendant came over and began the massage and scrubbed me down with what a strong soap that smelled remarkably like Ivory. After washing that off and periodically instructing me through vocal grunts (due to the language barrier) to turn over, the next step was the foam bath.

Now, if you’ve never had a massive jug of foamy water poured across your naked form on a hot stone table, I highly recommend the experience. It is a sensation like none other, and the warmth and soft feeling of the foam is like a soft light cushiony cashmere throw being tossed over you after it’s just come out of the dryer, only better. If only that portion lasted a little longer. The only issue I had with this part of the bath was that, in the prone position, the foam surrounded my face, and because the attendant was busy doing her job and there was, again, that language barrier, I felt too shy to move the foam away from my face, so it got a little bit in my eyes and nose. Small price to pay. Eventually the attendant “asked” me to sit up, and she scrubbed and exfoliated my arms by pulling forward on them.

After this portion was finished, the attendant instructed me to go over to the basin where she was seated earlier and she had me sit in front of her while she washed my hair, alternately pouring jugs of warm water over my head and scrubbing my scalp with shampoo.

Eventually, after the bath and massage were finished, I got a reflexology treatment upstairs, and later sat around for a while in the warm room where I first entered. Still later I spent a few minutes in the hot tub before finally drying my hair and making my way back out into the common area where I would eventually buy a few souvenirs for some of my girls at home who should have been there with me! By now it had been about an hour and a half since I arrived.

Stepping back out into the night and walking down Divanyolou Street afterward, I felt so clean and lemony — a feeling that stuck with me throughout the night, along with a little dizziness from the heat and the massage. Every open-air restaurant and meeting place we wandered past was filled with basketball fans glued to the TV screens and smoking hookah.

I don’t recall much of the rest of the night, except that the air was filled with periodic roars of jubilation each time a successful play was made by a Turkish basketball player.

What I do recall is that it was a good night all around. (Turkey won.)

 

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Turkish Delight

The first time I heard of Turkish Delight was as a kid while reading The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe.  In the story, it was the bait that lured Edmund into the evil hands of the White Witch.  Over the years, the phrase would evoke that story and also remind me of a Second Chapter of Acts song that retells the Edmund tale.

Even in Turkey I can’t say I had a hankering for Turkish Delight, and certainly, those who have tried this sugary, nutty confection can attest to its appeal.  Not being a big fan of jelly-variety candies, I’ve never tried it and therefore don’t know what I’m missing if it’s as good as the T.D. addicts say, so it’s an easy delectable for me to resist.

The VISUAL appeal of a display of Turkish Delight is another story.  During a stroll on my first night in Istanbul, I passed by a shop window full of this candy, and I found the color-burst irresistible.  Before long I would start seeing patterns in displays such as this — not only of Turkish Delight but of spices, carpets, gemstones, ice cream…


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Harem

I saw a couple of harems during the trip to Istanbul. One was at Topkapı Palace, another at Dolmabahçe Palace (the latter being where all residents of the former were moved when the Dolmabahçe was completed in 1856).  Prior to that time, sultans and their harems maintained primary residence at Topkapı.

To most of us the term “harem” evokes images of dancing semi-clad ladies and and girls, inevitably falling into the 15th-century era-appropriate equivalent of pillow fights. Possibly even something more akin to a brothel.

In reality, the far less romantic and less seductive reality is that palace harems were the women’s quarters where girls were raised and educated (with eunuchs as servants) to be wives and concubines of sultans and served simply as a place to live when nothing special was going on at the palace.

One of the areas in the Topkapı Palace harem included a rather sparse exhibit, with life-sized mannequins dressed in the period of the day. Leaves one relatively unsatisfied. What’s the untold harem story?

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Who is this man?

On my visit to the Bulgarian town of Kazanlak, I visited a Thracian tomb known as Kosmatka Tomb that was discovered in 2004 but dates back to at least 300 B.C.  The man buried there was a Thracian ruler named Seuthes III.    

I’ve been to Egypt and seen lots of tombs, but this was definitely one of the best-preserved tombs I’ve ever seen.  Granted, it’s hundreds rather than thousands of years old, but still.  The bust pictured here is a reproduction, but the entirety of the tomb itself is reported to be original, all fully preserved.

This tomb was in the middle of nowhere, seemingly.  When the tour bus left, it rode along roads that passed through fields and (empty) fields of roses (not in bloom at the time), as this area is also known as the “valley of roses” because of its moderate climate (not too hot in the summer nor too cold in the winter) and is a center of the rose oil industry.

The tour guide said that throughout this area there are mounds and hills that contain similar tombs all over the place — some of which have not yet been opened or discovered.  So we rode out of the valley, passing by these ancient burial mounds under grassy rolling hills.

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English tea in a Hungarian pub

 

Thanks to British ex-pats everywhere, tired and thirsty tourists can be sure to find a pub on a cold and wet day anywhere.  So after purchasing a container of Hungarian paprika just as Budapest’s Nagycsarnok marketplace was closing and the rain was starting, there, conveniently positioned across the way, lay a comfortably cozy pub where I could take a load off and consider the next course of action.

Now, firstly, Pickwick tea is not technically English, it’s Dutch.  And secondly, pubs anywhere on the globe feel English regardless of where you find them.  This Hungarian pub, however, was memorable not for its beer or food selections (I didn’t eat except for the large bowl of shelled peanuts on each table), but rather for its plethora of (mainly) business cards plastered and pinned all over the cork and wood paneled walls.  And for that large bowl of shelled peanuts on each table.

After ordering my blackcurrant tea, I couldn’t well resist digging into the big bowl of peanuts but wondered where to place the shells after cracking.  Before long I discovered that that is what the floor was for.

So for the remainder of the Day 1 sightseeing recess, I laughingly fought off the urge to leave the shells on the table (especially after the waiter, on one of his visits to my table, swiped the small pile of accumulated shells onto the floor).

And that’s today’s lesson in letting go….

 

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